2 Samuel 11-12, Psalm 51
What Should We Do with Our Failures?
- Don’t keep them in the dark
“Have mercy on me, O God, because of your unfailing love. Because of your great compassion, blot out the stain of my sins. Wash me clean from my guilt. Purify me from my sin. For I recognize my rebellion; it haunts me day and night.” Psalm 51:1-3 NLT
- Confess them to God and to the appropriate others
“Against you, and you alone, have I sinned;I have done what is evil in your sight.You will be proved right in what you say,and your judgment against me is just.For I was born a sinner—yes, from the moment my mother conceived me.But you desire honesty from the womb,teaching me wisdom even there.Purify me from my sins, and I will be clean;wash me, and I will be whiter than snow.” Psalm 51:4-7 NLT
“If we claim we have no sin, we are only fooling ourselves and not living in the truth. But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness.” 1 John 1:8-9 NLT
“Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results.” James 5:16 NLT
- Do a 180°
Oh, give me back my joy again;you have broken me—now let me rejoice.Don’t keep looking at my sins.Remove the stain of my guilt.Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a loyal spirit within me.Do not banish me from your presence,and don’t take your Holy Spirit from me.Restore to me the joy of your salvation,and make me willing to obey you. Psalm 51:8-12 NLT
- Learn fromyour failures and trust God to work them for good
“Then I will teach your ways to rebels,and they will return to you.Forgive me for shedding blood, O God who saves;then I will joyfully sing of your forgiveness.Unseal my lips, O Lord,that my mouth may praise you.You do not desire a sacrifice, or I would offer one.You do not want a burnt offering.The sacrifice you desire is a broken spirit.You will not reject a broken and repentant heart, O God.Look with favor on Zion and help her;rebuild the walls of Jerusalem.” Psalm 51:13-18 NLT
“And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.” Romans 8:28 NLT
- Leave them at the cross
“Then you will be pleased with sacrifices offered in the right spirit—with burnt offerings and whole burnt offerings. Then bulls will again be sacrificed on your altar.” Psalm 51:19 NLT